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Today should have been Totally Music Tuesday, but something else needs to be said instead. 

One of my favorite people ever hasn’t been around much lately.  They’re busy, I’m busy, yada, yada, yada.  However, even with all of the changes going on, I feel as though I have been supportive, even when I didn’t feel they were doing the right thing.  If you don’t ask for my advice, I’m not likely to give it to you.  I will be happy for you when you’re happy, no matter what it is that makes you so…no matter how absurd the situation.

When all of these good things happened this weekend, I didn’t even think to call this person.  I find that very telling.  I didn’t even realize it until yesterday, and sent a text just saying WT and I are a couple!  How did they respond?  “I’m so happy for you?”  “I knew it?”  No, it was, “but I liked the fireman!”  Um, ok.  First off, you don’t know either of these people, you only know what I’ve told you.  Secondly, would it KILL you to be excited for me?  To say “way to go” or something?  In the last few months, there have been many times when you did things that other people may have told you were impulsive or even dare I say…crazy.  But *I* didn’t, and I wouldn’t.  Because I love you, and I support you whatever you are doing to make yourself happy.  I will smile right along with you.  Is it too much to expect the same?

There were other comments througout this “conversation” that hurt.  All of them focused on the Fireman.  I tried to explain that yes, he was a great guy…but I am in love with WT.  I was before I started seeing TF.  WT is an amazing man, and I don’t know why this person can’t or won’t see that.  He’s never hurt me or even disappointed me, so I don’t get the animosity.  I know my friend loves me, and that they think they’re looking out for me, but inadvertantly they hurt me pretty bad.  We’ll be okay, just had to get that out.  I love you.

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  1. 1 Bekki February 24, 2009 at 12:50 pm

    I think that she is worried about you but showing you in the wrong way. None of us know anything about either boy except for what you tell us. We have to have faith in you and your instincts to tell you whats best for you. We also have to let you make happiness occur for you and we all must be there for you if its not a happy ending (sex reference, wink, wink). Basically, love you and let it happen.

  2. 2 Penelope February 24, 2009 at 1:24 pm

    If you love each other, you and your friend will find a way to work it out. You know that :o)

  3. 3 Evil Twin's Wife February 24, 2009 at 2:48 pm

    Maybe they were just really distracted and didn’t realize the words would be hurtful. I’m always looking for the silver lining… I hope you get an apology and your friendship continues.

  4. 4 gingermagnolia February 24, 2009 at 3:14 pm

    I know it’ll be okay, it always is, just had to get it out.

  5. 5 Ron February 24, 2009 at 11:15 pm

    You know I’m not sure about this Fireman or Wondertwin guys… I mean don’t you know some other guy, maybe with a blog… maybe even might comment here… His name might rhyme with Don or John….

    Crap, I knew that wouldn’t work!! LOL

  6. 6 Lola February 25, 2009 at 1:57 am

    Personally, I like the Wonder Triplet best 😉 I’m really hoping you’re not talking about who I think you are. Then again, if you are, it will work out.

    Sometimes, people – like me – say things without thinking about how it sounds to the other person and only realize it after the fact, especially when distracted.

    Aren’t you supposed to get laid on Tuesday and report back?

  7. 7 gingermagnolia February 25, 2009 at 8:26 am

    No apology necessary, just venting a bit.

    Ron – 😀

    Lola – Done, and DONE. Report: amazing, as per usual. Carry on.

  8. 8 Bekki February 25, 2009 at 10:08 pm

    I like Ron’s idea. However, you should be with someone whos name rhymes with ecky or vecky. Plus, that person totally loves you like all stalker like so you should be with her…

  9. 9 gingermagnolia February 26, 2009 at 2:10 am

    You are a TOTAL stalker. I’m gonna call the po-po on yo’ ass.

  10. 10 honeywine March 3, 2009 at 12:07 pm

    And how many times have I smiled and nodded despite the train wreck that was coming??? Hmmm? And, I’m not disappearing. I just can’t get to the computer which is the only place I ever see or hear from you. Take a break from Facebook for an hour sometime! Jeez… I don’t like to call if I think you’re in school and I’ve yet to figure out your schedule. The time I did call you were in the middle of a paper. When I do get a chance at the computer, I’m here trying to catch up with your life. And, I think I’ve been as usual pretty much. Sorry, but I really do like the fireman better. I didn’t like WT pulling the “backing off now” BS, and frankly, I overlooked one particular phrase you wrote about him because I WAS being nice. Want to talk to me about it? You’ve got every number I own…all FIVE of them. 8 times out of 10 I’m reachable. But if we’re blogging this…I can do that too… If I made a faux pas, then you just made one too. I wish I had read this when you wrote it because you can bet I’d have been on the freakin’ phone! 😦


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