So, I was right after all. I totally got played. Don’t you hate it when you’re right about the wrong things? Right now, I fucking hate men. They suck ass so much.

Why can’t people just be honest? You know, if he had been honest from the start, it would have been a lot easier than dragging shit out. Especially when he was asked outright.

Here are some tips for any guys reading this (except Ron, because I know he knows these things):

Do NOT tell a woman that you are falling for her if you aren’t.

Do NOT tell her that she’s safe with you if she isn’t.

Do NOT tell her that you’re ready to meet her kids if you are going to disappear.

Do NOT meet her whole family and then make her look like a fool.

Do NOT tell her that you are scared by how strong your feelings are and then run away.

Do NOT tell her that you’re on the same page if you aren’t.

Do NOT tell her that you want a family when all you want to do is run around to bars with your friends.

Do NOT parade around as a “good” guy if you aren’t.


Do NOT play games with her head.




It’s a hell of a lot easier on the other person if you just say, “Hey, let’s be friends,” or “I’m really just not really into you anymore,” than just disappearing.

Got that, fellas?

Mother fucker! I hate this feeling. I’m really mostly mad that I trusted him enough to meet my kids and he came around them a lot and then disappeared. And he still has my fucking Christmas tree! I just want my shit back so I can be done with this whole thing.

I am so damn mad right now, and feeling like a stupid idiot once again. Why is it so easy for people to do this to me? What is it about me that makes it easy for people to hurt me so much? Do they just know they can, so they do? I don’t understand it, and I am so sick of being the fool.

8 Responses to “Played”

  1. 1 lola December 27, 2008 at 2:42 am

    Oh, FUCK! I’m so sorry that he turned out to be such a dick, Ginger. You are so right that they should just be honest. Sadly, it’s not something that comes naturally to all of them. Once again, I’m sorry ;(

  2. 2 gingermagnolia December 27, 2008 at 3:42 am

    Lola – He wasn’t even a dick outright, at least I’m sure he doesn’t think so. Definitely a coward, though.

  3. 3 Ron December 27, 2008 at 5:38 am

    I’m so sorry {{HUGS}} you guys seemed so in sync. Not all of us are assholes, but enough to give us a bad reputation.

  4. 4 DutchBitch December 27, 2008 at 5:42 am

    Shit! I was afraid that this was what you were referring to a few days ago… That sucks MAJOR ass, Hon and I don’t blame you being as upset and angry as you are now.

    Big fat MUAH from Dutchyland!!!

  5. 5 gingermagnolia December 27, 2008 at 12:15 pm

    Ron – Don’t you hate it when what SEEMS isn’t what IS. I know not all guys are assholes, apparently just the ones I like are…

    Dutchie – Yeah, I’m really just mad right now. I was hurt before, but last night was just bullshit. He wasted my time, when it would have been so easy just to be honest. I don’t understand shit like that at all.

  6. 6 teeni December 27, 2008 at 12:57 pm

    I’ve been trying to play catchup on your blog. I don’t know what happened with Lord Swank but YOU didn’t do anything wrong and have nothing to feel bad about (although I’m sure that doesn’t make the pain go away – sorry about that). You don’t deserve to be lied to or treated like that. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said it would have been better if he had just said lets be friends or I’m just not into you anymore. It was crummy for him to lead you on like that.

  7. 7 honeywine December 27, 2008 at 1:43 pm

    You are NEVER NEVER NEVER a fool! We may have been fooled a few times, but we are never fools! Kiss that frog’s ass goodbye! Fuck him!

  8. 8 eviltwinswife December 27, 2008 at 2:13 pm

    What honeywine said! {{{HUGS}}}

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