I spent the better part of a morning deleting things off of my full mp3 player to make room for all of the spectacularly good music that was given to me by my Wonder Twin. I had a lot of stuff on there that I never listen to, so I went through and deleted the songs that I always skip over, and added at shit ton of new stuff.
I figured it’s worth my time, because there are days when I have a lot of time in between classes, and therefore have time to sit and listen to music in the common areas here on campus. Some of it is new to me (like Nickel Creek) and some are songs that I had before on tapes, but not in digital form (Nirvana). Yay for music!
I also have some interesting (and amusing) information regarding The Crazy One. As you know, we are trying the “strictly friends” thing now that time has passed. It’s going well, I think. For a few days, I was worried that he would fixate on me again. There were emails and texts about missing me, about how I was the only person who really “knew” him. I’m sure that’s true. One night he asked me something regarding sex with LS. I replied, “no comment.” He got really upset about that. I reminded him that that was NOT his business anymore. No matter what I could say about it, it would be the wrong thing, and would only hurt him. That night, there were a lot of texts he sent that went unanswered.
In the past few days, though, he started telling me about this girl at work that wants to date him. I encouraged him, telling him that it would be a good idea to get out and do things again (and keep him from fixating on me). Then, he tells me she is 19. 19!!!!!!! A teenager! This man is 35 years old! While I understand that teenage girls are more mature than teenage boys, I can’t imagine (at 28) dating a 19-year-old. Not that I haven’t had the opportunity, I just thought it would be too weird. He hasn’t decided whether he will go out with her or not, but I’m sure he will. I bet him that he will tell me he’s in love with her within a month. He bets that he won’t. I’m pretty sure I’ll win. It is nice, though, to be able to talk to him as a friend and give him advice without him talking about the past. If we can keep the boundaries up, I think we may just be able to pull off this friendship thing. That was always my goal when we broke up.
I dated an 18 yr. old for a year and a half when I was 26 or 27. It was totally a 1 1/2 yr. booty call. lol
Fun with a capital F is exactly what you need! I’m so happy that you’re having a good time!
Oh and I dated a 54 yr old when I was 31 for almost a year – he was older than both my parents! We are still friends though
When I was 16 I dated a woman in her late 90’s. She was very experienced and was an amazing lover when she took her teeth out. Sigh… The breakup was a bit rough I found out she was cheating on me with a younger man…
The age difference can work out. It depends on the maturity of the people involved. The Evil Twin is almost 10 years older than I am – but I think our maturity levels met somewhere in the middle. LOL.
Honey – You crazy ho! LMAO. I loves ya.
Penelope – Was he a professor? Heehee.
Ron – I bet she gave good head…
ETW – I’m sure it can, and he probably is on a level with a 19-year-old, in all honesty.
My next guy is going to be 19